I dont know yall. Maybe im trippin. Maybe- and I thnk this is it- I still havent got used to the way things go on down here. But these niggas got no game out here. Its starting to get on my nerves. What be trippin me out more is these sucka-for-luv ass females is just suckin that shit up.. Now I dont mean like right up front; i mean the mind games that they go through behind the scenes and the changes they put themselves through just to be able to deal.
I got deep on this and maybe one day i'll put out the(very extended version..
But In short i was just thinking how females had the upper hand inthe "game". Thats how it was supposed to be because they have a sense of longevity and quaility;they're gifts from above control the way the game is played. For the test of time. it always was that way. Men will run with the game. Black Men are the biggest plays of them all. We ALL couldnt be running things.. But the shorty's aint smart'n up. Falling for the same dumbshit that the niggas i grew up lookin up to swore they would be able to do but couldnt.. Real talk, alot of it acount for the babymammas of the world. You cant change no nigga, for real. And you will get emotional before he do -WAAAY before. you aint supposed to be running behind no young nigga like a chicken with they head cut off. I aint never seen no shit like this ( at this type of level) till I came to TX. 24- 25 yr old bitches fightin over a 19 yr old. Two things MF's laughin at you for: 1) This nigga 19 and must be pipin' these hoes stupid (or even worse) 2)His mouthpiece (his game) that strong (or these hoes that stupid ) that he got them lookin like youngin's under him! ... Dumb shit like that. And niggas you know do nuthin but run the street, being naiive to yourself like he faithful to you and getting upset when you find out different - or better yet get proof.
Ladies, yall suppose to be the smart ones, the ones with the common sense and all that. Like I said, if I was in them streets like that lookin for that ass ( just like when you see your bro or cousin coming home with a diffferent female every week/other day). And im gonna get some, guaranteed. That takes the pride out the game. Its a garaunteed win. And sadly for some its the beginning of a loss which can vary in size. Fellas always been hoes, Faithfulness is very hard work especially with the outlets of communication we have today. We dont respect women as we should anymore - its obvious ( im speaking a a whole {black}people not any group in particular). I just caught myself the other day thinking of how im tired of seeing these drunk loose ass, which one i wanna hit bitches in the street thinking they all that just get ran through. Oh love that term!!! Think about how many females you know getting ran through... That shit aint right. I tell mah homies to myspace these hoese these days, for real- find out who they know and shit.. Brawd burn you down to the bacon bits! Sheet.
Smartin up hunz. Stop being naiive. Be tru. to yourself.. I aint tellin anyone to go all square or some shit just dont let these cats run yall ragged or more importantly disrespect yourself.. Man I held back so much but damn this shit is crazy.. Eddie Murphy said it back in the days.. Its like playing Russian Roulette wit ya dick!
PA: Niggas is and always will be some hoes too, thank you. And I love all you ladies.. lol
Gotta run- Happy Hour.. -Q.
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you are dead on with this post, bruh.
most women don't realize the power that they truly have. we're gonna do whatever we can to do to be with them. it shouldn't be the other way around. two women fighting over a 19 yr old??? wowwwwwww!!!
women have the pussy! And pussy is undefeated! it's record is a trillion and 0!! almost every man will do what ever he can to get it. period.
good post
Q-
I know they always say women have the power, which i believe to be true, but what men fail to realize is that we have emotions and that we can only play the game for so long before we get caught up in it, we attach ourselves to things we like and the most hardest thing for us to do is detach ourselves.
If we were heartless creatures we would win based on our smarts, but we have emotions that get in the way and control our outcome.
A lot of people don't understand why i stayed with my children's father when i knew he was a hoe, people would always tell me how beautiful i was any man would have me, but that is not what i wanted i wanted that one man to want me, and i wasn't willing to give up, but eventually i got tired and moved on but it was 3 kids and 7 years later, and at the end of the i still feel as if he won the game!
@ sexxy luv
it may have taken you some time to arrive at your decision...but you made it. just imagine all of the women who never have that moment of clarity
This was so funny... on so many levels... but yet so true...
I dont get it either... and these simple minded chicks is making it hella hard for the chicks like me that wont put up with this ish from nigz... now nigz thinking this is the norm and that a chick like me suppose to just take whatever they wanna give... Like I've said before and I will say it again... chivalry is dead... and unless we take a stand as one with all the females in the world that we aint putting up with this ish anymore and that we know our worth... these nigz aint gon step they game up...
Like how you needed a drink after this...lol
My brotha Kyle, Its always a pleasure. I like the fact a repectable"Man's Man" was the first to comment. In my view of you (through many of your words) I know you understand and respect the value of the Woman, more importantly our Black/Latino women. withthatsaid...
It should not be the other way around:you're so right..cuzz in the end (and its a lil sad) its all about the cutty. Thats why desperate and mental MF's be raping girls or beating them or some type of abuse into them folding to sex.. I always thought easy and simple minded women is one of the few things that most men fantasise about but dont really want to manifest..
Hey sexxxy thang..
I'll let the greeting ride. First off im sorry bout dinner. I came to the gingerbread house expecting hot pumps and midnight pancakes but you made arrangements(or started askin bout em) after my work hours. I actually had a late dinner alone at one of my faves here in ATX. Moving right along bebe..
I have alot of respect for the makeups of the male and female psyche. We are different so we approach all things different. So when you say you can play the game so long before the attachment i feel you. I said somethin to that regard in the post... I remember my mom used to come at me when i started dating, bc i was real sensual for a young male in my early teens,she'd say "dont let em walk over you, cuzz you worth (in their eyes) is always half of what they can get away with.. I always thought that was her approach to the males in her society- but it made sense you know.. Human nature at its simplest forms is to take advantage, get the upperhand- feel me; Shit grabbing the last bowl of cereal, you know.. Im just at a point because women hold such a pivotal role in our society, its almost too important to lose face to this. The young male is more arrogant than he has ever been in modern times. You cant have the nuturer's of our future not aware and mores concsious of these things.. I think thats why i wrote this. I dont want this too long so i'll continue in a sec.. -Q.
Kay im back.. I'll close your comment sexxy saying this.. At this stage of knowing you and what you share at BTS, I got the utmost for you. Cause your coming to terms with negatives in your life and your fighting your way through for your respect your dignity and the well being of yourself and your children.. You've realized that your situation was not healthy and you trying and finding ways to rid yourself of that mess.. So I feel you in what you say. My post was about people who cant seem to get to the point your at. young(er) ladies who feel they gotta succomb to those emotions you were talking about permanently and or/ establishing that mindset prior to establishing real relationships...
Sexxyluv, I like saying that.. lemme stop. -Q. (how was ur weekend)
EB- wat it dew boo. You knew I had to keep it 500. The shit is funny, it is. Cuzz we laugh and talk about shit like this all day everyday. We all hear shit at work, in da street about people business. Im to the point where its sickening. As a society I think were going back to an image as to where all we are good for is buying shit and being animals. And its sad because there are so many strides that alot of young adults are taking to get themselves and there family's out of those images(by others and sadly some of our own people).
Your plight is the one im concerned with the most. Cuzz a nigga like me typically will for the female of your stature. And there are a lot if "new norms" now. Like I said, single dudes and folk not trying to get in real relationship aint looking (unless.. there looking lol) for you - cuzz its work, its respect, its a prize that if some showed the slightest of serious effort might get hella quickly. Guys would settle for ez kill if you will- the hoez, the jumpoffs, go-liver's, young gang niggaz fuck with they female sets and shit alike.
Its real and this gen is the true trendsetter. Major change in technology and more importantly communication. Tag that along with alot of ignorance(no longer sprayed around- bout 50/50) and immaturity.. Its like starting a culture over.. I dont know who to blame. Us or yall females. But I love the discussion. It can only get better if people talk about it.. Shouts to you and the city Iluv ma (Harlem's own)-Q.
MY BOO-
I was at the house waiting for you, but i see you stood me up once again, we gone have to tak about this? You said you wanted to come and eat at the Ginger bread house and didn't show!....I need you to be a man of your words especially during times like this! LMAO
I understand that you were talking about women who are where i was, i just wanted you to understand why they can't get it together, it doesn't happen over night, look how long it took me!
oh, and please don't stop saying my name.....(fill in the blank) lol
what is the distance between Dallas and Austin? ( drive time)
Kyle & Q-
Maybe times have changed....maybe PUSSY doesn't have that much POWER anymore....could this be the answer?....lol
seriously
Q-
My weekend was great! I didn't go on my date, but lunch with the ladies was oh so nice!
**note to self***
I must get better @ leaving one comment, instead of marking my territory!
sexxyluv, times definately have changed. although everyone doesnt change with the times. I think the 4 of us who took part of this discussion are kind of testament to that. But Men, Black men in particular, (they)we are realizing that generalizing and degrading- I really think subconsciously degrading is more correct- women as a whole can lower womens values.. Im very accountable. So I wont blame Hip Hop, media all that shit- when you apply it to those in your own groups and community thats when its applicable. But (they) are sticking to the script hard, because its new and that shit, picture it as anage old game that men have lost and now got the lead.. We have the upperhand in most of everything.. thats the world we were born into. But you couldnt take the a womans respect and dignity or the PUSSY without her willingy giving it or some petty nigga takin it. Now niggas can "respectfully" get what they want- EASSSY-part choice,part weakminded.. I think i feel most for the young ladies who feel they obligated off top.. Imma close this with an example
I met this female I was just flirting with at the club right. She fine, she was thinkin i got it like "Two Pistols" lol. I asked her what she was getting into later (it was early, bout 12:30) and she was like nothin.. So we exchanged numbers and all I aint really go there with her you know, but within the five minutes of convo and she was like if i end up going back wit you is it cool if we dont fuck tonight? I was thrown real hard by the question. Just peep the mentality.. She already submitted befor i ask, and on top of that she ask for approval or permission for me not go somewhere i didnt even gun for. Thats not right. She shouldnt feel like she's in THAT place. u feel me sexxxyluv?
Yea i feel you,I really do! that was wild crazy! how could you ask such a crazy question about your goods?.....Yes, Times have changed for the worst!
Speak Q! God i love how you put it down...you make me so proud, really to even know a man such as yourself, one who knows the game but not trying to exploit it.
Times have changed and a lot of women have given men the upperhand. Men don't respect these women, because they don't respect themselves. They think the end to their dream, or even the beginning is having a MAN. It is a sad realization an until our young sisters, and mama's stop the bullshit, it will continue to be a quick an ugly demise. I never say never, and so i believe that once the hoes are all run over, the real women will take the mantle again and reign supreme.
I heard that same shit in church miz:
"They think the end to their dream, or even the beginning is having a MAN"... \
Thats not a completion boo- Its just the beginning youknow.. Alot of the mothers are flooding there kids with that being the goal. Thats another thing we all see alot of which is not conducive to society again.. never say never miz. Cuzz these hoez will burn the britches of VD free wavvy ass playa like myself. How you doin?
Luv you Miz- Q.
I'll see yall peeps maniana(if thats how you spell it)
How ironic is this. As I was reading this, I was having a conversation with another blogger about this very topic. Good post.
It is what ms very organized noise (I love your blog, i must say). Whats ironic to me almost everyday is the times and places most of us have these conversations. We usually have it amongst folk who usually dont do anything to make use of the exchange. I find myself venting in conversation alot with people who dont give a fuck about it either way. but thanks for stoppin through.
It is what (it is).. Ahem excuse me lol..
I like this, I really really like this. Not many men step up for ladies and tell them about what to do in life (da streets). I admire you for that, and not only that you are so right with many of these women that disrespect themselves just so they can say they have a man. Crazy world!!
I like your bluntness!! Thanks for the love, dont be a stranger.
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